Sex Toys – The Beginner’s Guide!

November 18, 2018

Sex toys have come a long way since their initial clunky and cumbersome formats back in the day. Today, adult toys are a multi-billion Dollar industry worldwide and the toys are sleek and sophisticated. It’s thought that the fastest growing segment of the market is male sex toys so we thought it would be a good idea to highlight those toys guys should have as part of their sex-ploits!


In terms of self pleasure, why not enhance the hand to penis experience by incorporating a “male masturbator” toy to proceedings. Basically these are inexpensive toys which come in an easy to use format where you insert your penis as you hold the toy in your hand. The toy will be made of a comfortable material like silicone and the internal part might have texture which will further amp up the friction…in a good way! Sometimes these toys are referred to as “pocket pussies” as they’re designed to simulate inserting your penis into a lady’s vagina; there are also versions which simulate an anus. You can even get vibrating formats of these toys but a beginner is best to try a static version.

Prostate Stimulators

The prostate gland is located in the anal passage of a guy and while it does have important function in relation to semen production, it also gives sensational feelings when stimulated correctly. Luckily, there are toys specifically for this and it’s something that guys of all orientations enjoy. Again there are both static and vibrating versions available but for beginners, we recommend a static silicone prostate stimulator as silicone is a nice material especially comfortable for beginners. A key thing to remember for any anal play is to use high quality lubricant specifically for anal play as its thicker than regular lube and will make things easy and pleasant to insert and manoeuvre.

Cock Rings

Penis rings are simply a toy that you place at the base of the penis. They can help to lengthen the duration of erections, make them harder so what’s not to love about that?! Cock rings are inexpensive and really are a great toy to try for a beginner who wants to add something extra to their couples’ play no matter what orientation!

We also gained some insight from Elizabeth Morris, a buyer at Carvaka Adult Toys about beginners to sex toys: “People are becoming more open to trying new things in their sex lives and we have witnessed a distinct increase in male customers in the last couple of years alone. Adult toys are no longer seen as something to hide away; instead we see both couples and singles alike incorporating them as essentials of their sex lives.”

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